A glimpse into the life of a real family - ours. We're busy. Sometimes crazy busy. Occasionally, life gets chaotic. But we love each other deeply. God is first in our lives, and then each other. There is laughter and love and beauty in this home we share. And as I journey this somewhat chaotic life with the family I love, there are moments when I have to sit back, take a sip of my coffee with extra cream, and smile as I realize something very valuable...I am content.
Thursday, August 12, 2010
Leah
Have you ever felt like you just weren't enough? Have you ever felt like you lived in someone else's shadow? Have you ever been flat out rejected by someone you desperately wanted to care about you? Have you ever let insecurities dominate your behavior? Have you ever been used of God, even though you didn't feel worthy?
If you can relate to any of these questions, then you will probably relate to Leah, a woman that we see in the very first book of the Bible.
A few days ago I completed an in depth study on her life through the guide Leah: Confessions of a First Runner Up by Shannon Primicerio. I bought this Bible study book at the Christian bookstore. It is actually geared towards teenage girls, but the truths apply to all of us. I learned so much as I dove into her story. I think all of us have been at place where we just weren't enough for someone in our lives. In her case, she was never enough for her husband Jacob. He always loved her sister Rachel more. Always.
But she was enough for the God who loved her and He even used her, despite her insecurities and flaws, to be in the lineage of Jesus Christ.
For any of you who don't normally read the Bible, I think you may be surprised at how exciting it is. This story, and the other stories this study took me to in Genesis, are far from dull. And as you get to know these characters who once walked this earth just like us, and whose stories are forever recorded in God's Word, it's amazing what lessons we can learn from them to apply to today.
Check out Leah's story. You may identify. And if you do, know that the same God who used her has the ability to use you. He seems to specialize in using the broken.
Be encouraged today!
Lovingly,
Jennifer
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This Morning...
This morning I...
Watched two kids play ring toss in the sunshine.
Saw evidence of my little boy everywhere.
Marveled as my daughter's braid glistened in the early light.
Watched a little girl pick up a centipede over and over, then share it with her brother.
Best part of all? Out of the blue, my daughter ran inside and came out with three plastic cups of cold water to cool us all off. Why? In her words, "I wanted to do something nice to help my family."
That was a pretty neat start to this morning.
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Perspective
Yesterday I played a little game with my kids. We all sat at the table with blank drawing papers and markers, and I named something I wanted us all to draw. Then after we were done, I had the pleasure of seeing each drawing from each individual perspective.
I am not good at drawing, but I loved this little experience! Here is a glimpse into this time with my kids...
I am not good at drawing, but I loved this little experience! Here is a glimpse into this time with my kids...
I said: Draw a farm and some farm animals.
Madi drew this charming little red barn and used her hand to make that cute little turkey!
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Laugh if you must (I warned you I couldn't draw), but I tried to depict a barn, silo, wheat, and other various farm things. Madi asked if that was a little man in the window...it was supposed to be a chicken...
And evidently Trev did not feel like drawing a farm, because he announced that he had drawn a traffic jam instead. That made me smile. Three year old boys are so funny.
I said: Draw what you would see under the sea.
Madi drew this, making sure to clarify that even though the middle creature looks like a mermaid, it's actually a fish. Got it.
I drew this. Madi thought it was beautiful.
And Trev...well, Trev drew this. Now try to tell me that's not the coolest fish ever.
One of the definitions of perspective is "point of view." I had a blast seeing life from the point of view of my 5 and 3 year old, and was reminded that taking the time to see life from others' perspectives can be a valuable experience. Actually, we should probably all try to do this a little more often!
Blueberry Muffins
What is it about the scent of blueberry muffins filling the house?
I think it is the warmth, the knowledge that someone loves you enough to bake for you, the feeling that home is a good place to be.
So just as my mom used to bake blueberry muffins for us, I now bake them for my family. Because I want them to feel the warmth, I want them to know I love them enough to bake for them, I want them to believe that home is a good place to be.
National S'mores Day
August 10th is National S'mores Day.
Who knew?
Well, one of the sweet ladies from our church did, and I saw it on her facebook status! I couldn't let an opportunity like that pass us by without celebrating with the kids. I mean, we're talking about S'mores here.
I didn't have any Hershey Bars or marshmallows, but I did have graham crackers...and I had Nutella and marshmallow creme in my pantry. They were the perfect substitutes.
Here's to S'mores Day!
And here's to living life looking for reasons to celebrate!
Adventures At Aldi
I kept hearing about this place called Aldi.
One of our neighbors, who moved here a few years ago from St. Louis, works for Aldi.
A good friend here (who also moved from St. Louis) talked about how great Aldi was.
My husband, who grew up in the Chicago suburbs, said his grandma always used to shop at Aldi.
My friend Emilie said that my old hometown in Maryland had just gotten an Aldi
And a few blogs I was checking out that focus on cooking and saving money kept referring to...you guessed it...Aldi.
We actually have an Aldi, though it's about half an hour away and not exactly on the beaten path. But one day when I was in that area running some other errands, I thought I'd give it a try.
My first impression was mixed. I was confused how to get the shopping cart unlocked (you have to put a quarter in to get it). And then I walked in and it was so small. My daughter would later ask if we were going back to that "little grocery store" to give you perspective. I think it is really more of market. The aisles were piled high and the ambiance was not exactly upscale (not to be a grocery store snob). And there were hardly any name brands to be recognized...most products were Aldi's own brand, with a handful of name brand products sprinkled in. I decided to give a few things a try. I was conservative that day, spending only about $30, a mere fraction of a typical grocery run for our family unfortunately (and yes I know, I should become a coupon queen, I might get there one day, be patient with me).
So I checked out (purchasing my paper bags by the way, another Aldi quirk) and spent my $30. I couldn't use my Discover , which is a bummer because I like to use it on everything and pay it off monthly so I can use my cash back bonus to buy gifts or other extras (my cashback bonuses have already purchased two American Girl dolls, bought other Christmas gifts, and paid for half of a cruise through the years, it's a pretty sweet deal). But at Aldi you have to use cash or debit cards. Then I bagged my own groceries on this big long shelf (this ain't Publix, folks) and loaded it up and figured out how to return my cart. It was a bit of work with two kids involved (and in 100 degree weather) so I was still a bit of a skeptic. But I was determined to try it out, as I am always looking for good deals to make ends meet on our one income, youth pastor and stay at home mom budget.
As I unloaded my groceries at home, I had to admit I had gotten a lot for $30. I'm talking a few milks, several things of ground beef, butter, frozen berries, etc. I was pleased at the price points, but unsure of if we would like anything I purchased.
I was to be pleasantly surprised! The first thing I noticed was how delicious and creamy the milk was. Then my kids commented on it. We hadn't mentioned it to my husband, but when he poured himself a glass later that night he commented right away how that was some good milk. Considering how much milk we drink in this family and how Aldi's milk was about $1 cheaper than other stores right now, I was pretty happy about this!
Then over the next week or two we proceeded to try everything my $30 had purchased, and we like it all! So a few weeks later I went back, this time filling my cart and spending $120 (which is still less than a typical massive grocery run around here) and again, I got so much for my money). I stocked up on things like flour, sugar, brown sugar, vanilla, butter, etc... as all these staples are significantly cheaper than even Walmart brands. And I tried a bunch of new things as well. I still had to run to Publix or Walmart to get a few things we really like (certain types of yogurt, blueberries and other produce, coffee creamers) as Aldi definitely has a limited inventory. But I certainly was able to stock my pantry and freezer, their 93% lean ground beef is lean as can be and very inexpensive, and their frozen sliced strawberries I used to make shortcake on Sunday were red and delicious and came in a large, very economical bag.
It's still off the beaten path. It's still small, without every item we use available. And it's still a bit of a job to bag it all and deal with the cart with two kids. And while I will still use our local Walmart (which I can't stand but endure) and Publix (which I love), I think Aldi will be a part of my grocery rotation when I'm out that way running errands so I can stock up on certain staples and save.
I think I could even say I'm now an Aldi fan.
If you have one near you, you may want to give it a try...just remember to bring a quarter and a debit card and an open mind to try new things!
One of our neighbors, who moved here a few years ago from St. Louis, works for Aldi.
A good friend here (who also moved from St. Louis) talked about how great Aldi was.
My husband, who grew up in the Chicago suburbs, said his grandma always used to shop at Aldi.
My friend Emilie said that my old hometown in Maryland had just gotten an Aldi
And a few blogs I was checking out that focus on cooking and saving money kept referring to...you guessed it...Aldi.
We actually have an Aldi, though it's about half an hour away and not exactly on the beaten path. But one day when I was in that area running some other errands, I thought I'd give it a try.
My first impression was mixed. I was confused how to get the shopping cart unlocked (you have to put a quarter in to get it). And then I walked in and it was so small. My daughter would later ask if we were going back to that "little grocery store" to give you perspective. I think it is really more of market. The aisles were piled high and the ambiance was not exactly upscale (not to be a grocery store snob). And there were hardly any name brands to be recognized...most products were Aldi's own brand, with a handful of name brand products sprinkled in. I decided to give a few things a try. I was conservative that day, spending only about $30, a mere fraction of a typical grocery run for our family unfortunately (and yes I know, I should become a coupon queen, I might get there one day, be patient with me).
So I checked out (purchasing my paper bags by the way, another Aldi quirk) and spent my $30. I couldn't use my Discover , which is a bummer because I like to use it on everything and pay it off monthly so I can use my cash back bonus to buy gifts or other extras (my cashback bonuses have already purchased two American Girl dolls, bought other Christmas gifts, and paid for half of a cruise through the years, it's a pretty sweet deal). But at Aldi you have to use cash or debit cards. Then I bagged my own groceries on this big long shelf (this ain't Publix, folks) and loaded it up and figured out how to return my cart. It was a bit of work with two kids involved (and in 100 degree weather) so I was still a bit of a skeptic. But I was determined to try it out, as I am always looking for good deals to make ends meet on our one income, youth pastor and stay at home mom budget.
As I unloaded my groceries at home, I had to admit I had gotten a lot for $30. I'm talking a few milks, several things of ground beef, butter, frozen berries, etc. I was pleased at the price points, but unsure of if we would like anything I purchased.
I was to be pleasantly surprised! The first thing I noticed was how delicious and creamy the milk was. Then my kids commented on it. We hadn't mentioned it to my husband, but when he poured himself a glass later that night he commented right away how that was some good milk. Considering how much milk we drink in this family and how Aldi's milk was about $1 cheaper than other stores right now, I was pretty happy about this!
Then over the next week or two we proceeded to try everything my $30 had purchased, and we like it all! So a few weeks later I went back, this time filling my cart and spending $120 (which is still less than a typical massive grocery run around here) and again, I got so much for my money). I stocked up on things like flour, sugar, brown sugar, vanilla, butter, etc... as all these staples are significantly cheaper than even Walmart brands. And I tried a bunch of new things as well. I still had to run to Publix or Walmart to get a few things we really like (certain types of yogurt, blueberries and other produce, coffee creamers) as Aldi definitely has a limited inventory. But I certainly was able to stock my pantry and freezer, their 93% lean ground beef is lean as can be and very inexpensive, and their frozen sliced strawberries I used to make shortcake on Sunday were red and delicious and came in a large, very economical bag.
It's still off the beaten path. It's still small, without every item we use available. And it's still a bit of a job to bag it all and deal with the cart with two kids. And while I will still use our local Walmart (which I can't stand but endure) and Publix (which I love), I think Aldi will be a part of my grocery rotation when I'm out that way running errands so I can stock up on certain staples and save.
I think I could even say I'm now an Aldi fan.
If you have one near you, you may want to give it a try...just remember to bring a quarter and a debit card and an open mind to try new things!
Saturday, August 7, 2010
A Coke and a Smile
Sometimes I just have to have a Coke...and a smile, of course!
And sometimes that Coke just has to be in a bottle. Ice cold. Bliss.
I was drinking one last night when my daughter came up and asked for a sip. I said yes, and knowing the wonderful intensity of a bottled Coke, watched to see what her reaction would be. She took a great big swig and her face puckered as if she was sucking a lemon and sort of shook as she swallowed it down.
Then she looked at me with wide brown eyes and exclaimed, "Oh Mommy, that made my tongue pop!!!"
Ahhhh...exactly.
When I snapped this picture, I had no idea Madi was going to make that face, the perfect face for her comment! How fun. And she is wearing that hat because she had worn it and her scrubs for three days straight. It's nice to have a nurse around. She gives out Spiderman and Hello Kitty BandAids. It's a pretty sweet deal.
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